hey I've been very busy in the last few dayz with work it a very stressful 6 dayz most service that my company was down new regulations were implemented which made lost & the customers as well, so today I felt like to write this to let it of my mind, & the story is :
I've known this person from almost five years back we became ia very very close friends we were in touch on a daily bases discussing every thing happened in our lives we shared our ups & downs we were more than brothers we know the every detail in both of us but suddenly from ten months ago there was something that I didn't know till now that changes our relationship up side down we weren't that close anymore he call me occainlly he talk to me in a formal way as one of his work colleague & till today im liven in a dilemma not knowing what's happened .
I need a way to fix things up .
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"but suddenly from ten months ago there was something that I didn't know till now"
Well assuming that "now" you know what went wrong, thats a good thing..
Lots of relationships ends while both the parties don't know exactly what went wrong, you know what I mean?
Since you know whats the problem, there's nothing better than sit with ur colleague & discuss with'em this situation. This might be hard in some cases, but at the end you'll feel better.
Good luck :)
yaeh i get your point but what if the other party is not willing to dicusse this matter what should i do ?? (about the reason of what happend i dont know what is happening lail elyoum al have is doupts thats all)
nooni, I faced a similar situation with a dear colleague of mine couple of months ago. I knew she might reject the idea of us sitting together & discussing the conflict we were facing, but since (as I mentioned) she was close to me & I considered her more like a friend than a colleague, so I decided to take the initiative to fix things up, regardless of the outcome. So, its all up to you. At least you can say you gave it a try & (as we put it) "barrait thimitik".
btw, that colleague of mine didn't confess that she made a mistake nor did she appologize (although it was her fault), but I didn't care much... last thing I want is to have tention amongst my colleagues who I spend most of the day with`em.
thanx man you made my day by this idea & i'll give it a shot & i'll see what outcome it'll be ..
1. Good luck
2. Tention = Tension :D
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